According to the Internet Safety organization, i-Safe.org, 58% of children who are victims of cyber-bullying do not tell their parents or any other adult when something mean or hurtful happens to them online.  That does not mean that parents and teachers are unable to do anything about cyber-bullying.  The reality is that the Internet has brought us an exciting, but potentially dangerous new world.  The links and information on this page will help parents navigate these treacherous new waters and help them to help their children enjoy a safe online experience.

( Cyberbullying : What parents can do website)

• What is(are) your screen name(s) ?   Are they portraying themselves with too much information? (Age, Name, Interests) Or perhaps have chosen too provocative of a screen name? Does the screen name indicate a negative self view? Don't be surprised if they have several screen names.  You should ask them why. Kids are trying on different personals in cyberspace that they would never be able to in the physical world.
• What is in your profile(s)?  If they have multiple screen names, they have a profile associated with each one.  Are you comfortable with the material they posted in there? 
• Do they understand anyone can view it? 
• Do they understand it is wrong to cyberbully someone in that small window of information?
• Who is on your buddy list? Are you comfortable with the same are you comfortable with the screen names and numbers?
• Have you ever given your password to a friend?  Many kids are doing this today as a test of trust with their friend. This is highly dangerous too.  Middle school friendships are fickle and quite often the child's password is sent on to others.  You can imagine how a kid could ruin your child's reputation while pretending to be them on-line. 

• Be knowledgeable about cyber bullying.
• Talk to your children about cyber bullying .
• Let them know that cyber bullying is wrong and to report it immediately to an adult.
• Research the policies on cyber-bullying in your community and local law enforcement.
• Discuss with your child the activities they engage in when their online.